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My First Million

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you cannot control the pebbles, but you can control the nature of your water
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What It Means

You can't control external events but you can control your internal response

Why It Matters

Most suffering comes from trying to control uncontrollable things while neglecting controllable responses

When It's True

In most daily situations where external events are beyond your influence

When It's Risky

When you actually do have power to change problematic circumstances

How to Apply

1

Before reacting to external events, ask what aspects are within your control

2

Focus energy on your response rather than trying to change others or circumstances

3

Develop practices for maintaining calm internal state regardless of external chaos

Example Scenario

During economic downturn, you can't control market conditions but can control your learning, networking, and emotional state while job searching