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The best business ideas come from noticing what's working and doing it better, faster, or for a different audience.

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psychologynegotiation

What It Means

The less desperate or emotionally attached you appear, the more attractive and powerful your position becomes

Why It Matters

Desperation weakens negotiating position and decision-making quality across business and personal relationships

When It's True

In negotiations, dating, fundraising, or any situation where perceived scarcity creates value

When It's Risky

When genuine relationship building requires vulnerability, or when the other party sees through the technique

How to Apply

1

Build multiple options so you're not dependent on one outcome

2

Don't appear overly eager or desperate

3

Maintain emotional distance from specific deals

4

Have genuine alternatives ready

5

Focus on long-term value over short-term wins

Example Scenario

Entrepreneur with previous exit can negotiate better terms with investors because they don't desperately need the money, while broke founder accepts worse terms due to desperation.