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Victim vs Responsible Framework
A mental model that distinguishes between taking a victim stance (blaming external circumstances) versus taking complete responsibility for outcomes and responses
How It Works
You're responsible for your response to events, not the events themselves. The word 'responsible' breaks down to 'response-able' - your ability to choose your response determines your trajectory.
Components
Tell your story from the victim perspective first
Retell the exact same story taking 100% responsibility
Identify the choices and signs you ignored
Focus on what you can control going forward
Take ownership of your emotional responses
When to Use
When facing setbacks, conflicts, failures, or any situation where you feel wronged or unlucky
When Not to Use
In situations involving actual victimization where responsibility assignment could be harmful
Anti-Patterns to Avoid
Example
“Instead of saying 'My business partner screwed me over,' you reframe as 'I ignored red flags, didn't do proper due diligence, and chose to trust without verification. Now I know what to look for and how to structure partnerships differently.'”