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If You're Explaining, You're Losing

Reusability

A PR principle stating that when you spend time explaining or defending your position, you've already lost control of the narrative and message.

How It Works

Explanations put you in reactive mode, making you appear defensive while giving more attention to negative topics. The audience focuses on what you're defending against rather than your positive message.

Components

1

Acknowledge briefly without dwelling

2

Pivot immediately to your positive message

3

Stay in offensive/proactive mode

4

Control the conversation direction

When to Use

In any public communication, media interviews, crisis management, or when addressing criticism.

When Not to Use

When genuine clarification is needed for complex topics that weren't communicated clearly initially, or in educational contexts.

Anti-Patterns to Avoid

Spending multiple minutes defending against criticismRepeating negative talking pointsGetting emotional or defensiveFailing to pivot to your agenda

Example

When asked about declining user numbers, instead of explaining why the numbers are misleading, immediately pivot to growth metrics and new features that show momentum.