Knowledge Marketplace
My First Million

My First Million

The best business ideas come from noticing what's working and doing it better, faster, or for a different audience.

Back to Frameworks

Date Like a Scientist

Reusability

A systematic approach to dating that involves running experiments with different types of partners to discover who actually makes you happy long-term, rather than relying on preconceived notions of your 'type'.

How It Works

Works by treating your dating preferences as hypotheses to be tested rather than facts. You deliberately date people who don't match your stated criteria to see if your assumptions about what you want are actually correct.

Components

1

Identify your stated preferences and requirements for a partner

2

Examine whether these are true needs or potentially limiting assumptions

3

Design experiments by dating people who don't meet some of these criteria

4

Track how you actually feel and function with different types of partners

5

Adjust your criteria based on actual data from experiences rather than theoretical preferences

When to Use

When you have very specific criteria for a partner that may be limiting your options, or when you keep dating the same type of person with poor results. Especially useful for people with detailed 'requirements lists'.

When Not to Use

When you have fundamental deal-breakers around values or life direction, or when you're already successfully finding compatible partners with your current approach.

Anti-Patterns to Avoid

Dating people who violate your core values or fundamental compatibility factorsDismissing experiment results that don't align with what you want to be trueTreating people like test subjects rather than potential genuine connections

Example

A lawyer insists they need to date another lawyer with an advanced degree. Using this framework, they experiment by dating a thoughtful carpenter and an intellectually curious teacher, discovering that what they actually value is intellectual curiosity and ambition, not specific credentials.