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My First Million

My First Million

The best business ideas come from noticing what's working and doing it better, faster, or for a different audience.

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The Boy vs The Guy Framework

Reusability

Young ambitious person works directly for successful entrepreneur for 2-3 years as protégé/chief of staff, getting mentorship and connections in exchange for dedicated service

How It Works

Creates mutually beneficial relationship where mentor gets dedicated talent and mentee gets accelerated learning, network access, and eventual backing

Components

1

Find successful person with 20+ year age gap

2

Cold email offering specific value

3

Commit to 2-3 year apprenticeship

4

Shadow extensively and handle everything

5

Leverage backing and connections afterward

When to Use

When you're young (20+ year age gap required), ambitious, and want to accelerate career trajectory through direct apprenticeship

When Not to Use

When you're too close in age to potential mentor, already have strong network, or prefer building independently

Anti-Patterns to Avoid

Trying to apprentice with someone too close in ageNot committing fully to the roleExpecting immediate returnsChoosing mentor based on status alone

Example

Ben Horowitz was Reed Hoffman's chief of staff, Blake Masters worked for Peter Thiel - both leveraged these relationships into major entrepreneurial success